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Monday, May 18, 2026
Why We Say We’re Going to Sleep Early (But Never Actually Do) by Aaliyah Sharma
Rewatching The Same Shows: My Ultimate Comfort Zone by Aaliyah Sharma
Many People Prefer Short Videos Over Full Shows by Aaliyah Sharma
The Weird Guilt of Doing Nothing All Day by Aaliyah Sharma
The Weird Guilt of Doing Nothing All Day
Part of this guilt comes from how used to being busy we have become. During the school year, everything is structured. There are assignments, tests, activities, and constant reminders that there is always something to be done. Over time, that mindset sticks. Even when the work disappears, the feeling does not. It is almost like your brain does not know how to turn off, so doing nothing starts to feel wrong instead of normal. We begin to measure our days based on how much we accomplished, even when there is no real reason to.
Social media makes this feeling even stronger. Every time you open an app, it seems like someone else is doing something impressive, going out, being productive, or having the perfect day. Even if you know it is not completely real, it is hard not to compare. Suddenly, your relaxing day feels like it is not enough. It creates this invisible pressure to always be doing something worth showing, as if simply resting has no value unless it looks good to other people.
What makes this guilt so strange is that rest is actually necessary. People are not meant to be constantly productive, even if it feels like that is expected. Taking time to do nothing can help you reset, think more clearly, and avoid burnout. The problem is not the rest itself, but the way we have been taught to see it. When we treat every moment as something that needs to be used efficiently, we forget that sometimes the best thing you can do is just pause.
In the end, the weird guilt of doing nothing says more about our mindset than our actions. It shows how deeply we have connected our worth to productivity. Learning to let go of that feeling is not easy, but it is important. Free time should not feel like a problem that needs to be solved. Sometimes, doing nothing is exactly what we need, and it should be enough.
Cherry, Kendra. “What Is Toxic Productivity?” Verywell Mind, 27 Sept. 2024, www.verywellmind.com/toxic-
School Does Not Prepare Us For The Real World by Aaliyah Sharma
School Does Not Prepare Us For The Real World
One of the biggest gaps in the education system is the lack of real-life skill development. Students spend years learning complex equations, analyzing literature, and memorizing historical events, yet many are never taught how to manage money, understand taxes, or make informed financial decisions. Skills such as budgeting, credit management, and even basic job preparation are often overlooked. These are not optional abilities; they are essential for independence. Without exposure to these topics, students are left to figure them out on their own, often through trial and error.
In addition to practical skills, school also tends to neglect emotional and mental preparation. The environment is heavily focused on performance, grades, test scores, and achievements, rather than personal growth. While success is important, the constant pressure can lead students to associate their self-worth with academic results. At the same time, there is little structured guidance on handling stress, failure, or uncertainty. In reality, these experiences are unavoidable parts of life. Without learning how to cope with them, students may struggle when they encounter challenges outside of school, where there are no clear rubrics or answer keys.
Another issue is that schools often promote a narrow definition of success. Students are encouraged to follow a traditional path, excel academically, attend college, and secure a stable career. While this path works for some, it does not reflect the wide range of opportunities and passions that exist today. Creativity, entrepreneurship, and unconventional career paths are rarely emphasized in a meaningful way. This can make students feel pressured to fit into a specific mold rather than explore what truly interests them. As a result, many leave school unsure of who they are or what they want, despite having spent years preparing for their future.
Ultimately, the problem is not that school has no value, but that its approach is incomplete. Academic knowledge is important, but it should not come at the expense of real-world readiness. To truly prepare students, education needs to go beyond textbooks and standardized tests, incorporating life skills, emotional intelligence, and opportunities for self-discovery. Until then, many students will continue to feel that while school teaches them how to succeed in the classroom, it does not fully prepare them for life outside of it.
Aaliyah Sharma
“Are States Providing Adequate Financial Literacy Education?” Brookings Institution, 18 July 2022, www.brookings.edu/articles/
Saturday, May 16, 2026
Buy, Buy, Buy! by Shuxuan Chang
Buy, Buy, Buy!
“ Wuuuuu”, I slammed my bedroom door shut after my family yelled at me. I was thinking about what I did wrong, why my family had just yelled at me. After I calmed down, I picked up my phone, thinking that maybe buying something could make me feel a little better.
I opened the shopping app and began browsing, looking at cosmetics I had wanted for a long time—or perhaps those products that various bloggers had highly recommended. The moment I hit the "Buy It" button, I felt a sense of lightness wash over me—perhaps because I knew I would soon get to use this new item, or perhaps simply because shopping made me feel like I deserved something nice. Somehow, shopping gives me a kind of comfort nothing else does.
It’s actually strange. Whenever my friends and I feel upset—angry, stressed, or sad—we always end up wanting to reward ourselves after talking everything out. Sometimes, shopping alone is enough to make me feel better; other times, going shopping with friends after we vent to each other feels just as comforting. Yet, even when nothing is bothering me, I still enjoy shopping—though I don’t go overboard. I’ll pick up the things I actually need, and every now and then, I’ll treat myself to two or three items I simply desire—just as a little reward to myself for getting through everything.
Sometimes I don’t understand what’s going on inside my head. I’ve got at least a thousand different thoughts racing through my mind, and I just act on whatever pops up at the moment. *Waaah!* If I keep this up, I’m going to blow through my entire allowance! Maybe shopping never truly solves my problems, but in those moments, it gives me something to look forward to.
The Challenge of Picking a Career as a Teen by Ibrahim Rogers
The Challenge of Picking a Career as a Teen
Occasionally, people ask me about what I would like to pursue after graduating high school. To tell you the truth, I do not have a clear answer as to what my plans for the future might look like. Even though we are pressured to select a career path long before we turn eighteen, it is important to acknowledge that any unexpected event may change our opinion. For instance, I know someone thought they would become an engineer. Now, however, he decided to pursue a degree in law instead. As for myself, I wanted to become an engineer back when I was in my freshmen year of high school, and now the idea is funny to me.
In addition to the need to choose a profession yourself, there is also another problem that comes into play which is parental expectations. Our dear moms and dads wish nothing but the best for us; however, their expectations may place unnecessary pressure upon us. It's difficult when your parents pressure you into going into a certain career because they have done it themselves or because they believe that it will be the most financially secure path for you. You want to make them happy, but at the same time, you do not want to spend the rest of your life chasing something that doesn’t make you happy just for the sake of maintaining peace at home.
According to a study conducted by the National Center for Education Statistics, 30% of college students switch majors at least once during the first three years of college education. If adults, who pay for their education, can’t stick to their first decision, how can we expect a teenager in high school to know everything about their future? In the end, I do believe that high school should serve you an experience of exploring and failing. If you are overwhelmed by the idea of making a career decision already at this stage, you are definitely not alone.
National Center for Education Statistics. “Beginning College Students Who Change Their Majors within 3 Years of Enrollment.” Nces.ed.gov, Dec. 2017, nces.ed.gov/pubs2018/2018434/