Thanksgiving By Kaveeshan Gnanarajah
Happy Thanksgiving to those who celebrate it. And yes, I do know that this is a few days late.
Thanksgiving, and this overall time of the year has always been one of my favorite holidays. It is so simple, but so meaningful. The football games, the plates of food, an the discussions with family I almost never see outside of this day. I rarely get to see my cousins besides Thanksgiving because they live a decent distance away, and those few hours where we all talk just catching up with each other is always so enjoyable. It’s one of the rare moments where everyone in your family slows down, and actually takes time to appreciate each other without having to worry about the next thing.
One of my elementary school teachers, my fourth-grade one, made us write a letter to the people we were thankful for. At the time, this just felt like another assignment, but looking back, it stuck with me more than I expected. Although this was just something we did that one year, I actually started doing it every Thanksgiving. This little card that takes literally under 10 minutes of your time, made the people I showed it to so happy. I’ve felt my mood and happiness increase so much just by simply seeing the reactions of the letter, even though they know it’s happening now. Honestly, you don’t even have to write a letter If you can, and are genuine enough, just giving that person a little talk is so meaningful and will make their entire week.
What I have learned from expressing my thankfulness is that it isn’t just good for them, it also made me happier. When you are forced to tell someone to their face why they matter you, why you actually like being around them, and the characteristics that separates them from others, it forces you to slow down and recognize the great people you are surrounding yourself with.
With all this being said, even though it will technically be late, if there is someone in your life who made this year even slightly better, please let them know.